*:The Life Way:* 10 secrets to fulfilling Relationships

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2010/07/05
:The Life Way:


10 secrets to fulfilling Relationships

1>The fists secret? The power of THOUGHT. Love being with our thoughts. We become what we think about loving thoughts create loving experience..."

2>the second secret?
The power of GIVING. If we wand to receive love all you have to do is give it! The more love you give the more you will receive love. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship, ask not what the other person will be able to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

3>the third secret?
The power of RESPECT. You can not love anyone or anythink unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. "what do i respect about my self?" to again respect for other, even those you may dislike ask yourself "what do i respect about them?"

4>the fourth secret?
The power of FRIENDSHIP. To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love dose not consist of gazing in to Each others eyes,but rather looking outward together in some direction. If we went to love someone completely you must love them for who they are not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love seeds grow. If we went to bring love in to a Relationship, you must first bring friendship.

5>the fifth secret?
The power of LITTING GO. If you love something, let it free. If it come back to you, its yours; if it doesnt it never was. Even in a loving relationship people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears prejudices egos and conditions. "Today i let go of all my fears, the part has no power over me- today is the beginning of a new life".

6>the sixth secret?
The power of COMMUNICATION. When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes, to love someone is to communicate with them. Late the people you love know that a love them and appreciate them. Neve be afraid to say those three magic wards: "I LOVE YOU" never let an opportunity pass to praise someone you love with a loving ward it could be the last time you see them! If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved. Who would you call what would you say and .... Why are why are you waiting?

7>the seventh secret?
The power of COMMITMENT. If you want to have love in abundance you must be committed to it and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and action. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationship you must be committed to loving relationship. When you are committed to someone or something quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

8>the eight secret?
The power of TOUCH. Touch is one me the most powerful expression of love, breaking down carriers and bonding relationship. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

9>the ninth secret?
The power of PASSION. Passion ignites love and keep it alive. Lasting passion dose not come through physical attraction alone, its come from deeps commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experience when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprise produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

10>the tenth secret?
The power of TRUST. True is essential in all loving relationship without it, one person become suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You can not love someone completly unless you trust them completly. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you cant tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself." Do i trust them completly and unreservedly?" if the answer is "no", think carefully befor making a commitment.